Sometimes I really wonder a lot

Sometimes I really really wonder a lot.

I was wondering about something that happened today and these questions came to me as quite important to answer.

Normally such things do bother me quite a bit, so I just decided to throw it up and see if anyone shoots it down. And also, it disturbing to have this running around in my head while I’m doing my fyp.

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1. Do I talk with people on what they like just to make them interested?

2. Do I talk with people on what I think is a good interest or important?

3. Do I talk with people on what is a good common interest?

If I do (1), I’m only expressing that how they feel is important to me or that I am dependent on what it is they feel. What about if the talk goes wary and into places where the core interests or core values of the person or myself isn’t ok? I would very well end up stabbing myself because I reminded the person who I am talking to and me about bad values.

However, I do note that marketing always focuses on the first point. So do presentations, they always focus directly onto the audience and everything is put or arranged in such a way that it totally fits the audience.

Also, my tuitioning always focuses on the first point so that I can question all the way to what the student believes, values and then change them so that it can enable them to get the grades they want.

If I do (2), I only seems to be saying that I am the only right person that is alive right now. That is good if there is at least some focus or objective preset already but isn’t it too overloading on myself?

It seems that only (3) is the best possible way, that is because I don’t hit anything wrong the first place. Neither do I question on what the person believes in (which may be for the good or not, in my own perspective) and what his values are. Moreover, people are emotional, not rational. I found out that having a good relationship between people is one that magnifies positive emotions between and within each other together to bring out each other’s best rather than creating any negative ones that cripple each other.

Positive emotions can bring about states of motivation, love, courage, purpose and happiness within each other to find what they want. It is of course a totally intangible item and yet it happens to me everyday until I can’t ignore it.

Or when I need to do something and yet I lament about the lack of motivation and yet fail to understand what it is the first place and desire it so much. Or why is it that I like music that lifts me up the first place.

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Back to my fyp.